Prayer: Ask God for forgiveness if you know that you are missing His will because of your own stubborn will. And pray for strength to follow Him, no matter how hard it may seem at times. Also pray for understanding of His will, and that He will show you which route is the better option for your life.
Spiritual growth: Have an open and honest conversation with your spouse / close friend today about God’s will. Exchange ideas about how God’s will work, and if you think that you are acting within His will, or currently acting within your own will.